Right now you might think you're "managing" with another coffee, another late night, another weekend spent recovering – but chronic stress doesn't stay still, it gets worse.
Year one: Those "bad days" become your normal, morning dread becomes your alarm clock, brain fog becomes "just getting older," and weekend recovery becomes your only downtime.
Year two: Your body keeps score as memory problems worsen (stress literally shrinks your brain), weight piles around your middle, blood pressure rises, and relationships crack.
Year three and beyond brings burnout, depression, serious health problems, and medication dependency.
Dr. Emma Richardson, a London GP, sees it daily: "Patients come in at 45 looking 60, on three medications, relationships in tatters, all saying 'I wish I'd done something sooner."
The worst part? You stop being you – that person who laughed easily and thought clearly disappears, replaced by someone always tired but can't rest, always busy but gets nothing meaningful done.
You have two choices: keep hoping it gets better while watching your health and joy erode, or make one small change today that actually works. The real question isn't "Can I afford to try this?" – it's "Can you afford NOT to?" Because stress compounds like interest, and every day you wait, it takes more.